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So, I recently had a post about being a young father.

I just wanted to thank you all for the wonderful response to that post.

It meant a lot and I can't stress that enough. In light of all this though, as much as I love my daughter, I will not lie and say I've had no issues with her choices in men.

Her latest boyfriend is some guy she met online. And ever since she's been 'seeing' him, (Don't even know how that works) I've just seen her total attitude change. I hate to see her sad over a guy.

I have been trying to uproot her boyfriend with other nice guys at my work and I know it's messed up. But I just don't see any other options. This guy is not good for her.

Any advice? I don't want to control her life but I just know this guy is not good for her.

Thanks again for the support!

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  1. Let her be, Tim! Sometimes the heart wants what it wants. I had a similar issue with my young one but now she's married to the ogre. Haha! Joking, but seriously, embrace the ones she loves! Because you can change a lot of things but what your heart wants isn't one of them.

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    1. I think what your heart want means what your brain decided before and always dicissions can be changed 😀

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    2. But also he cant change her mind i think ,
      He just can let her experience this case then after while she will be unaffected emosionally person who no one can hurt her again

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    3. Hey Tim, I think what matters is whether the boy loves her or not...the fact that she is sad coz of him then here's something u should know...u cant eliminate all the sadness from her life no matter how much u try...she would be sad at some point in her life evn if u find a perfect guy for her...coz if there's no pain in love there's no love at all. So make sure you know how the guy feels about her...and the rest it won't be something she can't handle.

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  3. I think trying to "replace" him with another guy probably won't work and is a bad approach. If you're worried that it's an emotionally abusive relationship, "Why Does He Do That" is a good book exploring the dynamics of abuse and has helped lots of people get out of abusive relationships. Otherwise, she's an adult and you have to let her make her own decisions. Hope that helps.

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  4. Who're you going with to the academy? It's from the game

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  5. I think you just need to let your daughter make her own decisions and mistakes. Maybe this guy will even end up being great for her. By the way, who are you going with to the academy?

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  6. It is what it is.. love does not see all this

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  7. Who are you going withe to the academy I'm so confused with this game

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  8. Where are you gonna be on 9/24?

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  9. Man you guys are not very smart are you? Look around his blog for answers. It'll be obvious when you see it.

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  12. Hey Tim. Tell me about your latest blog post.

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  15. Hey Tim, I hope you get that bonus!!! Just wondering where you're gonna be tomorrow at 9/24?

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  18. Hay Tim where are you going to be tomorrow 9/24? Also good luck with the work bully

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  21. Hey tim was wondering who will be going with you tomorrow, got somone special? ��

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  33. read the other blogs guys!!
    exciting plans! it says the answer!

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  60. Hi Tim, where will you be on 9/24?

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  72. I guess you should personally meet the guy if you still haven't. Get a feel of his attitude, his character. Don't decide just by the looks

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  73. Are you all thick? Read the other bits of the blog, it tells you where he's going to be and with who. You won't get a reply, it's not a real person writing this, just part of the game. Idiots.

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  76. If I may ask, where will you be tomorrow 9/24?

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